Author Archives: Deborah Fay

Do you struggle with writing? I’m talking about literally having trouble getting words out of your head and getting them onto a word doc, or onto paper. I do. I know that as a book coach, I’m not supposed to say that out loud, but it is the truth. I know from my own personal experience, as well as from regular feedback I receive from aspiring authors, that it’s not uncommon for writers to become paralysed by what I like to call our inner editor.  We have an idea that we want to explore and we start putting things down on paper, or typing things into a note on our computers, and before long we are reading and rereading the few words we’ve written, and editing them, and we’ve lost our creative spark.  Or worse, we don’t even start putting our ideas on paper because we just get so stuck…

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What is the best way to go for your book? This is going to sound funny, coming from a book coach, but I don’t read books. I used to. It was not unusual for me to absorb at least one book a week, but I now prefer to listen to books, and I know I am not alone. My 2nd favourite way to consume books is on my kindle app. I love, love, love the idea of being able to take my entire library with me everywhere I go. That thought alone fills me with great joy. And I love having a visual of what I am listenning to. Side note: Did you know that listenning and reading at the same time actually helps you to absorb more content? I heard that from Alex Hermozi. (If you are in business and you don’t know who he is, look him up.…

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Have you ever stopped to marvel at what extraordinary humans can achieve when they set their minds to something? Throughout history—and in quiet corners of our modern world—people are solving impossible problems, rising from heartbreak and hardship, and creating movements that ripple far beyond their original intention. From grassroots campaigns that transform communities, to everyday individuals who turn pain into purpose, the common thread is this: they decide they want to make a difference. They choose to speak up.They choose to take action.They choose to believe that their voice, their story, and their ideas will matter to someone. And when they make that choice, lives change. At Disruptive Publishing, I get to witness this power firsthand. I work with women—many in midlife and beyond—who are no longer willing to stay silent or sit on their dreams. They’re ready to tell their story, build their legacy, and turn their life experience…

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The WRITE Formula: How to Give Your Book Purpose and Power in a Busy Market When asked, almost every author will tell you that they want to write a book that’s transformational—not just informational. Great. It helps to be clear on that. But how do you ensure your book has what it takes to acheive that? Every day approximately 6,000 new books are published worldwide, including both print and digital formats like ebooks and audiobooks. That’s 42,000 per week and more than 2 million books in a year. It makes sense then, that if an author wants to stand out in such a busy crowd, they need a powerful edge. So I created the WRITE formula. How do you stand out in the crowd? How do you get noticed? And how do you cut through so you can have the sort of impact you long to have? You need to…

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Here are 3 things to look for when you are looking for someone to help you get your book written: Clarity + Structure When you know where the goal posts are, and you have a plan to reach them, it is so much easier to score. A good book coach helps you organise your thoughts into a compelling book plan so that you have a clear goal and an easy-to-follow formula for organising your knowledge and expertise in a way your readers will love. Honest Feedback When you are writing nonfiction, your voice is an important part of your book. A good book coach guides your writing without changing your voice so that your reader hears you, gets to know you better, and feels more connected to you with every word they read. Accountability How long have you been wanting to write your book? A good book coach will help…

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Something most people don’t realise (until they do it) is that writing a book isn’t just about the end product. It’s about who you become in the process of writing it. Writing a book is a transformational experience and you absolutely do change and in powerful ways. Here’s 3 Ways Writing A Book Will Change You. You get really clear on who you are and what you stand for. Writing forces you to make sense of your story and what you’ve lived. You’ll reclaim your voice. You get to say what you want to say, in your own way. No permission needed from anyone else. And you’ll grow enormously in confidence. Writing your truth is an act of courage and every day I am so priveleged to work with authors who are choosing to stand up and use their voices in powerful ways. These things alone are reason enough to…

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All writers get stuck at times, but here are 3 areas where aspiring authors get stuck—and how you can get unstuck: You don’t have a clear plan. Try outlining 10 key turning points or lessons you want to teach your reader first. You are editing while you write. Try scheduling separate your writing time from your editing time. You are isolating yourself. Find a writing community or consider working with a coach to stay motivated and accountable. Writing and publishing your first book is part creativity, part structure, and a whole lot of support. You really don’t have to do it all alone. If you’ve been struggling to finish your book, feel free to reach out for a chat and together we can get your book finished. How good would that be?

It’s a challenge for many aspiring authors and it’s so frustrating when you go and open a new word doc but you don’t know what the hell to put on it. So I thought it might be helpful to share some tips that will liberate your inner author and get the creative juices going. Give these a go and see if they work for you. 1. Give yourself permission to write freely for 10-20 minutes. 2. Write about why you want to write a book. 3. Don’t edit. Don’t overthink. Just let it flow. 4. Write about what message is burning inside you that you want to get across to readers. 5. Write about moments that changed you forever and how. 6. Write about who you want to help with your book and why. 7. Write for your eyes only. 8. Don’t try to get it perfect. Just get it…

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If you are reading this, then you probably know what it feels like to have that persistent nudge — the one that says, “You should write a book”? Maybe it’s a story that won’t leave you alone. A lived experience that others could learn from. Or wisdom you’ve gained that you know could change lives. The intention is there… but the how can feel so overwhelming. That’s where a book coach comes in. So… What Is a Book Coach? I get asked all the time what a Book Coach does? Think of a book coach as your creative midwife, strategic guide, and personal cheerleader — all rolled into one. I walk alongside you through the messy parts of writing, helping you move from idea in your head to finished manuscript in your hand — with heart, clarity, and direction. Here’s What I Actually Do: ✅ I help you clarify your…

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What a year it has been!!

I want to say a sincere thank you from the bottom of my heart to those of you who have been opening our emails, reading our blog, watching our videos and listenning to our podcast each week.

I also want to express my heartfelt gratitude to our community of 200+ authors who chose to put their trust in us by allowing us to bring their stories to life.  We do love our Disruptive Authors and not only do we value their trust, we appreciate the referrals they continue to send to us. Thanks.

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